flexagon | Ah, the binding together of two lives...

Spent quite a while looking at the legalities of getting married. There are plenty of hoops to jump through in the proper order... in MA you have to get a syphilis test, and before you apply for a marriage license, if you please. The good thing to come out of the day, though, is learning that I can get HLM onto my health insurance as a domestic partner, thus saving him about $230/month, effective immediately. Actually, we found out we could have done it about 8 months ago, as soon as we'd been living together for 6 months, so we're kicking ourselves a little.

I am glad to do this nice thing for him. I fell asleep last night trying to list all the dumb little things he does that let me know he really loves me, and I was by no means done when I konked out. So I want to be good to him too. But I'll try not to let this stop me from quitting if I decide I'm really sick of DSB. :b

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Six months, at $230 = $1380 = 27,600 minutes on the telephone using 10-10-220 ... but why would you want to be on the phone that long?? So it isn't much of a loss.

Why didn't I see it that way before? See, this is just what I need friends for :)

catch syphilis after you get the license and before you get married. Cuz that's what you want to do right? I mean clearly there must be a history of demand for them feel it necessary to legally regulate all those syphilitics who wish to infect their legally bound partners. Bastards.

Ah, the binding together of two lives...

Not much...

You're so right...

Well at least you'll have a couple days to quickly