Rules of thumb...

I read The Happiness Project two weeks ago with the greatest of dorky glee and then felt compelled to read the entire archive of the author's blog. (I don't recommend the latter to you if you're not good at skimming. Me, I'm very good at skimming, and I found some good nuggets). Probably the most bloggable post is this one about heuristics, or rules of thumb that people have embedded in their brains. The comments are interesting, as different people list theirs.

These fall into at least two categories: rules of thumb that you try to think of when dealing with life, and rules/assumptions that you kind of live by even though you might not even agree with them. (A lot of prejudices and self-destructive rules fall into this category: everything I do has to be perfect, religious people are stupid, etc.)

Some of other people's (the good kind):

• Identify the problem.


• The opposite of a great truth is also true.


• Choose the bigger life.


• Smile, breathe and go slowly.


• The times when things go wrong often make the best memories.


• Learn to be comfortable with uncertainty.

Some of mine, mixed:

• Alignment, tightness, balance.


• Focus on the foundation.


• Work hard, play hard.


• Grace under pressure.


• The only way out is through.


• Weebles wobble, but they don't fall down.


• Pick up both crystals! (Demand both whenever possible).


• Do things with short term AND long-term benefits.


• Everyone creates their own happiness.

What are some of yours?

(As is usual lately, this draft has been in progress for days, and has nothing to do with what's actually happening now.)