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I'm late with this post because of a date night switcheroo followed by being busy. And I can't believe how much has happened. Life seems to move faster now in some ways, not that time is passing faster but that a larger percentage of the hours I spend in a day are actually advancing the plot. So anyway, this covers ten days.


  • I did a pact, or "tiny experiment", a la the book Tiny Experiments. In particular I had a long email thread filled with lots of goodbye emails from people at Zillian, many of which (but not all of which) warranted a personalized reply, and it was so hard to address that I'd left it alone for a few weeks. A week ago Weds after spending 2-3 hours on email and still not touching it, I decided to start writing five emails to co-workers every day for a week. Which I did! Yes, including on my birthday. I didn't really know how many I would choose to write, but this last Wednesday, suddenly, only two remained. Now some people have written back to my replies, but, anyway, good pact.

  • The bug and I attended a full moon ritual & singing circle over at Blue-Green Street, and that was new for me.

  • I went out to the No Kings protests on Saturday, and saw some really excellent signs (including the only boots worth licking are the ones worn by goth girls). I enjoyed the march, then went on to the rest of Norwood's 50th birthday party, which indeed I was in that town for; ended up spending a lot of the party with another of his exes, who I was wildly incompatible with in 2015. A funny moment in time, this one, where we found ourselves both being exes from the same era. I hugged her goodbye and she said "you're still a fucking weirdo", which is 100% true.

  • My crossword puzzle collaborator and I got excited about a theme idea and started working on it in earnest, with a spreadsheet for possible theme entries etc, but then it became clear that it was too similar to another just-published puzzle and we decided to set that theme down. Back to the drawing board. Bit of a let-down, but I really appreciate how much time he's saving me by nixing ideas before I spend tons of time gridding them out... we'll get somewhere eventually.

  • I played a lot of Chants of Senaar, carved away on my tree stump, and finished reading Black River Orchard which is the most fun horror book I've read in a long time.

  • Early on Monday the bug left for Oregon, in order to help his mother in the aftermath of a hip surgery (which has now happened and gone well). I've been holding down the fort since then, which has meant a ton of cleaning. I had to take out the garbage/recycling/compost as well as tidy up everything for the cleaners. However, it was especially wonderful to have the squirrel over at my place on a Tuesday for once, and now the house is very clean.

  • Israel attacked Iran, holy shit. Also vice versa. I had one of my Israeli friends over on Monday for commiseration and hangouts.

  • Around and through this, handstand lessons have continued. Better focus means better results; Spring was happy with my press off a single folded-up panel mat on Tuesday. I wish I were doing more consistent, disciplined practicing on my own, but... that sort of thing is where the burnout lies, I guess. July will offer me more incentive to work on my own, when both my coaches are out for a while.



Today's been eventful. I spent most of the day in Salem poking around at all the little witchy shops, with friends; then came back and served dinner to five former co-workers (they're all better friends with each other than with me; I just volunteered to host their group, in exchange for my getting to peep their vibe). Right when that was finishing up, I got a text that Birdie, my bio-kid, has signed a lease for an apartment a ten-minute walk from me! Just across the square. OMG!! That's going to be crazy, just utterly bonkers, having her be local for a while.

And now I am really freaking tired. Time to fall over.
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Well, we can start with vacation. I've found that some vacations make me say "ah, I feel like myself again", and other ones elicit a "heh, I haven't even bothered to try to be myself in like five days." This was one of the latter ones. I hung out with friends in Seattle, ate two giant unhealthy meals a day, very slowly worked on getting over a cold, used a lot of Kleenex and watched a ridiculous number of movies. Most of them bad ones.

I did finish knitting the scarf I thought would never end, and I had a lovely visit with Birdie the biological child (who is now nine!) and her daddies. We visited the Pacific Science center -- she was too shy to pose for many pictures (even in front of the funhouse mirror), but we got a few good ones. Check this out... me and my cute genes.

Biology.

Every time we visit them I feel like I give her parents bad news ("why yes, I WAS a really picky eater as a child"), but overall it's delightful to see them. Birdie is growing up happy and oh so middle class. She has her own iPad, and friends, and she's all "how old were you when you got email? I was seven." That's what I wanted. If I lived with her I would possibly feel a lot of bitter, unacceptable raging jealousy over the whole "happy childhood" thing, but I don't, and so I like it. She gets more interesting every time I see her, as she gets older. This time we very solemnly traded email addresses.

More fun was had with the brass caterpillar. Oh, oh yes, brass caterpillar, YES!

Going all glam on a brass caterpillar

Came back, still sick, and set about falling back into the work vortex... and getting ready to move later this week.  I freecycled a bunch of stuff last weekend, and hauled a couple of loads of stuff to the Goodwill, and helped [livejournal.com profile] heisenbug clean out his basement workshop. It's amazing how much physical stuff was down there -- tonight's garbage and recycle chores are going to be epic. And I made it worse by having us haul back the styrofoam and other trash from assembling two flat-pack dressers over there on Sunday. 

As for work, despite having missed a LOT of days over the last few weeks, I feel a fierce satisfaction with how things are going. I've driven some aggressive design decisions and I'm getting what I want out of several high-stakes discussions. If the price is occasionally going into a reverie and working on updating the design document until midnight on Sunday, then so be it. My manager is out on vacation so he's not even observing the current awesome, but I guess when he gets back I'll simply tell him.

With all of the above, something had to give, and that something was workouts. I'm in really depressing shape. I lifted weights on Saturday for the first time in, um, I'm not telling you, and the same for yoga tonight. UGH. I'm weak, and I have about as much acrobatic precision in my body as a wilted turnip. I care about this, but let's face it... fixing it can't reasonably be priority #1 until we've moved and I'm somewhat settled in the new place (I'm quick with that) and I'm 100% sure that my cold has gone away. 

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