ice water and ocicats

Everybody seems to come at this from their own angle, for me, talking about this is a novel and liberating experience

I'm all in favor of that. :) For me, I guess it's more or less like talking about workouts. It can be a good talk, and it's fun to swap tips, but it can also get boring. Anyway, no worries, I'm sure you haven't seen the last sex post.

Thanks for being so positive. I'm not feeling negative--hope it doesn't sound that way--I just found it all a bit odd.