Well, it asked if I wanted to specify details.

From the last will and testament I just ordered from legalzoom.com, in the section regarding how my funeral is to be held:

I specifically ask that people withhold judgement of other people's reactions to my death. It is explicitly all right with me if some people are relieved or happy, or simply do not grieve as is considered "normal". All reactions are to be accepted. Judgmental people will be haunted to the best of my ability.