Inertia seems to be everything
Mar. 29th, 2010 11:11 pmOnce I actually work on my side project, I want to work on it again soon. A countertop that has clutter on it will accumulate more clutter. Some say that money attracts more money; it's obvious that getting one cat is a gateway to getting more cats. It's a bad idea to think about this too much -- I could start thinking that EVERYTHING is addictive.
If you feel like reading a link, check out The unmistakable freedom of contentment. I find it pretty interesting to think of developing contentment as a practice or goal in itself. I've always viewed it as an emergent property that happens when things align just right. I wonder why I'm fine with the idea of working on happiness, or gratitude, but surprised at the idea of working on contentment. Something subtle is going on there.
If you feel like reading a link, check out The unmistakable freedom of contentment. I find it pretty interesting to think of developing contentment as a practice or goal in itself. I've always viewed it as an emergent property that happens when things align just right. I wonder why I'm fine with the idea of working on happiness, or gratitude, but surprised at the idea of working on contentment. Something subtle is going on there.
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Date: 2010-04-02 12:26 am (UTC)are you dissatisfied with your wardrobe? go buy new clothes. not content with your vehicle? go buy a new one. Well YEAH. Definitely DO those things. This is on a minimalist blog, so the audience is people who don't have a large number of possessions -- those few possessions may as well be high-quality and bring pleasure. By all means, if something isn't good enough, trade up to something that is. Give the old one to someone who needs it. (If something is good enough, then yes, be smart and realize it's still good enough even if the next version is on the market.)
I don't think a person can buy their way out of unhappiness, but there is no reason to limp through life using crappy low-quality things that break all the time, or don't work, or make you feel shabby. There IS a world of difference between really good shoes and crappy shoes, and between (for knitters) good-quality, well-spun natural-fiber yarn and cheap acrylic crap. A nice new well-fitted bike vs an old rusty one. Again, I feel this goes double for self-proclaimed minimalists who don't plan on having many objects.
(sings) You know that we are living in a material world, and I am a material girl.
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Date: 2010-04-02 03:53 am (UTC)However, as you phrased it, that when you *do* buy something, buy quality, I totally agree with.