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I wanted to do some serious reading on this vacation to go with the fluffy stuff, and chose A Hedonist Manifesto by Michel Onfray because I realized how little I knew about hedonism as a real philosophical system. (People use the slang term all the time, but usually in a derogatory way. If you want to know how far off it is, think about the word "cynical" as generally used, and contrast with the original idea of living a life of virtue in agreement with nature, with just the basics).

Onfray is a serious, active, and famous-in-France philosopher who goes over a lot of the history of hedonist philosophical thought (and philosophers) before getting into his ideas on what constitutes morality. The book is also translated, which made it tough going -- lots of obscure words that the Kindle didn't know, a few words that set my teeth on edge (including "hysterical" to mean, roughly, twitterpated -- but the misogynist overtones were almost certainly not intended), and of course I'm not so big on history in general.

Anyway. I can enjoy a book without 100% recommending it, and I highlighted more passages from this one than probably any other on my Kindle. 45 passages, according to kindle.amazon.com, and all but two were things I liked, so there's that. The book is correct that many moralities and philosophical frameworks are happy to talk about avoiding suffering, but straight talk about pleasure as a potentially moral good is hard to find. People get embarrassed by discussion of pleasure, and there tends to be an assumption that the only kind is of the short-term and physical variety. It was great to read a book that doesn't shy away from the idea of an enjoyable, enjoyed life as a morally good one.

I can't read about ethics/morality/philosophy anymore without thinking of Jonathan Haidt's framework of morality from The Righteous Mind to see how whatever I'm reading fits in. In this case, it's easy. The barest summary is "enjoy and have others enjoy, without doing harm to yourself or anyone else; that is all there is to morality." Which means, in the Haidt framework, pay attention to the Care/Harm axis and leave the other sensibilities out of morality. I am actually not far away from this, and I'm now even more convinced that care/harm/pleasure is one of my own major ethical concerns. But my knowledge of the other axes/pillars tells me that hedonism alone won't sit well with most people in the world, and I have the vocabulary to say why. Alas. :-/

Onfray did disappoint in a couple of places. I was curious what he'd have to say about sex and gender, of course, and he expressed his staunch feminism thusly: "We can talk of real equality once literature produces the equivalent of a female Casanova, a female Don Juan, and this proper name becomes a substantive that gives value to the individual it qualifies. But we seem far from that." Hahaha YES, preach it! He also basically thinks that sex can be very morally good, can involve 2+ beings, and should be rolled into whatever kind of relationship makes sense for those involved. But the way to actually comport oneself while doing this seems a little bit pre-polyamory, in that he thinks the best way to avoid jealousy (which he terms inevitable) is to not give oneself exposure to it; to be discreet and expect others to do the same. This is "don't ask, don't tell" and would seem to essentially disallow multiple relationships that matter, which reads as kind of primitive to my ears. Of course it's also very French. A cultural thing? At any rate, it was just one paragraph in a chapter I essentially agreed with, so I shall try to forgive. And there were a couple of other instances of this, including an overly-blanket statement about antidepressants that prompted me to write "christ what an asshole" in a Kindle note.

More egregiously and confusingly, the book entirely leaves out animal experiences of the world. I was honestly surprised by this. Onfray's hedonism is quite close to utilitarianism, with a large priority on helping others feel pleasure (help them, avoid hurting them) and a tendency to prioritize (probable) future happiness over the momentary. And he used the word "beings" a lot, maybe more than he used "people". It seems difficult to me to discuss the maximizing of total pleasure/pain in the world while overlooking the many instances of animal consciousness around us; I'm thinking both of pets and the fact that we give a lot of animals truly terrible lives before, you know, eating them. I expected him to at least get into how intensely different animals might feel, and how we should measure their pleasure/pain against human pleasure/pain.

I still liked it, and appreciated his point that a lot of atheists still hold suspiciously Judeo-Christian values. His talk of a post-Christian atheism is warranted, because yes it is is good to go back and question our moral stances when our underlying beliefs change. For my part, I'm mentally going back to (my own expanded version of) Haidt's framework, a little. There are other moral pillars that I've already decided I explicitly reject as part of my morality system (even if I may consider them as aesthetic or even pragmatic things), like the Sanctity/Degradation axis. I think I'm about ready to consciously jettison one more, but I have more thinking to do. In the meantime, I'm glad I did the above bit of reading and had time to chew on it sufficiently.

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