I had a depressing conversation with HLM last night about how much money he wants to keep putting towards condo improvement after we finish paying off the windows this month. Basically, the answer is zero... the time of having common financial goals is over. And much as I talked a big talk last night, I don't really feel like financing a kitchen remodel on my own, so that idea is out until future notice too (we are still going to get a dishwasher hooked up, but financial involvement on HLM's part stops there). Le sigh. I know, I know, I was going to revisit my budget anyway, and yes, the place is a lot nicer now than it was when we moved in. But sometimes it's just depressing to be reminded that you and your partner have such different goals. They lined up for a while there... and it was so nice. Sucks to go back to going it alone. I'm already a lot less depressed than I was last night, but that doesn't exactly mean cheerful.
Oh, and I also found out yesterday that Dahn yoga is basically a cult. :(
Thank you, droplets of sleet that are hitting my window, for reflecting my mood so well.
Oh, and I also found out yesterday that Dahn yoga is basically a cult. :(
Thank you, droplets of sleet that are hitting my window, for reflecting my mood so well.
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Date: 2005-01-06 05:24 pm (UTC)http://www.rickross.com/groups/dti.html
Actually, I still can't figure out whether my place is directly associated with that institute--it is Dahnak but not by that corporate name. Anyway, it's all just kinda depressing, and the place in Davis is a little feel-good for my taste (though NOT as creepy as the stuff on that page).