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A few things get Done
Apr. 17th, 2018 09:04 amWritten mostly on Sunday but failed to post.
I forgot this last time, but I tried a new sex position a week ago (which I'll want to remember as a "first" for 2018). ( too lazy to make an explicit-filter post just for this )
In the endless swirling stream of Not-Done, I'm trying to focus on the Done. One thing we Did in the last week is taxes, and we managed to do it in one evening without killing each other over how to split it up between ourselves. It's hard on both of us -- the one day of the year I usually regret having separate finances. This time we not only did something I think was fair, but we agreed to do the same thing next year, which means I finally did the right thing of increasing my withholdings. Maybe we won't have quite such an insane payment next year.
Work is a frightening list of important technical things I'm not getting around to and emails I'm not reading. I reviewed a document that will be important to someone though, and I met with all my local people last week to ensure that none of them are on fire. That's the base -- if the people are okay then the projects and work can get done. This week I'm only there for a day, so it was important to get my check-ins. By Wednesday I will also be Done with an appeals committee.
I continue to prioritize guys a little higher than I normally would in relation to work, due to circumstances. Sigh. Fucking circumstances. Fucking guys.
I forgot this last time, but I tried a new sex position a week ago (which I'll want to remember as a "first" for 2018). ( too lazy to make an explicit-filter post just for this )
In the endless swirling stream of Not-Done, I'm trying to focus on the Done. One thing we Did in the last week is taxes, and we managed to do it in one evening without killing each other over how to split it up between ourselves. It's hard on both of us -- the one day of the year I usually regret having separate finances. This time we not only did something I think was fair, but we agreed to do the same thing next year, which means I finally did the right thing of increasing my withholdings. Maybe we won't have quite such an insane payment next year.
Work is a frightening list of important technical things I'm not getting around to and emails I'm not reading. I reviewed a document that will be important to someone though, and I met with all my local people last week to ensure that none of them are on fire. That's the base -- if the people are okay then the projects and work can get done. This week I'm only there for a day, so it was important to get my check-ins. By Wednesday I will also be Done with an appeals committee.
I continue to prioritize guys a little higher than I normally would in relation to work, due to circumstances. Sigh. Fucking circumstances. Fucking guys.
