A thought on adaptability
Dec. 5th, 2012 12:27 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
flexagonThere are at least two ways to be adaptable, two ways to say "whatever you want." One of these means "I'm a doormat". The other means "I'm confident that I have lots of good ways to approach this, and I want to make it happen, so I'll work with that."
People to whom I say "whatever you want" had damn well better be able to tell the difference and know they're getting the latter, and not think "doormat" when they see me.
People to whom I say "whatever you want" had damn well better be able to tell the difference and know they're getting the latter, and not think "doormat" when they see me.
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